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Faith in the Future

This has been a crazy few weeks! I’ve had a range of emotions as I have watched the COVID-19 (Corona) virus numbers rise and our activities and events cancelled. I wanted to share something that has brought me peace and hope amid all of this. Over the last several months I have had some health problems. I have had to slow down a little and reevaluate the things I am doing. I guess it was good practice for what we are going through now. As I did this, I found myself mourning the person I used to be and the things I used to be able to do. I found that I was worried about my life now and learning how to deal with slowing down. I am a very active, productive person so this has been a hard adjustment for me. The future though is the hardest part. I found myself fearing the future and what the side effects of this health issue might bring. It was hard. In December, sitting in church one Sunday while taking the Sacrament, I opened my Bible. In the back of my Bible is a dictionary that has been composed from words in the Bible. There is a section in the Bible Dictionary that contains the names of Christ. In my scripture study that week I was studying Revelation so I went there to see the names of Christ in that book. There was a name that immediately stood out to me. Usually when I think about the names of Christ I think about names like, Savior or Almighty or Light of the World. This name was different. In Revelation 11:17 Christ is called, “which art, and wast, and art to come.” That stuck out to me because it says He is present, past and future. That is exactly what I had worried about, mourned over, and feared. I immediately remembered all the times in my life that I have felt Christ and his grace. I thought about how I feel Him now in my life getting me through this time. I realized that what I needed to do was let go of the fear of what my future holds, because He will be there too. No matter what happens with my health or with anything else, He will be there to give us the strength we need.

This can apply to any situation. We all go through hard times where we may mourn the past, worry about the present, and fear the future. This can happen with health problems or family problems or work problems…….or even world pandemics! Remembering that Jesus Christ has been with us in the past and is with us now, can help us let go of fear of what is in the future. We can replace that fear with faith and look for the lessons He is trying to teach us. I know I am being taught to slow down a little, to think about what is most important in my life, to re prioritize… This is bringing me peace and joy.

Thanksgiving Blessings

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Sometimes my days are really long and really hard!  But, I have been thinking a lot lately about how grateful I am that I don’t have to work and I am able to stay home with my children.  This week Ella signed me up to bring over four dozen rolls in to her class for their Thanksgiving feast.  The night before I had to make them, I was so tempted to run to the store and purchase them.  It would be so much faster and easier!  I thought about how that would disappoint Ella.  She loves my homemade rolls and that is what she was hoping from me.  I thought about how there is nothing more important that I could do with my time than making my daughter happy.  I made the rolls because I am blessed to be able to stay home and make rolls.  That is something I could do for her so why would I not do it?  I knew it would make her happy and that is what makes me happy.

There are things in my kids lives that I don’t have to miss.  There are times that they need me and I get to be there for them.  I get to take my kids to school every day so they don’t have to ride the bus two hours a day.  On picture day last month as it was pouring rain, I got to walk them to the door one by one under my umbrella.  I got to take Ella to school one morning only to come home and find that she had left her homework folder along with two days worth of homework on the counter.  I got to go back to the school and take it to her so she didn’t have to go to study room during recess.  I get to see the pure joy in Brennen’s eyes as he says goodbye to his preschool class everyday when I pick him up.  I get to snuggle with my baby Griffin every day.  I got to help with Preston’s fall party and see how my shy son raised his hand to answer a question which I know takes much courage for him.  I got to make over four dozen homemade rolls for Ella’s class.

For those reasons and many many more, I am grateful!

Photo Challenge-Hands

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“Hands” are the theme for the photo challenge this week at “iheartfaces.”  As I looked back through some of my photos I realized that I love taking pictures of hands.  They can tell a story all by themselves.  I had to pick the photo of Preston’s dirty hands handing me flowers from last summer as my entry.  I loved the flowers but I loved his dirty little hands even better!  Here are a few of my other favorites.

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And I simply couldn’t resist this photo-it’s Mr. Potato Head’s hand holding Ella’s tooth so the tooth fairy can find it!

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Grateful

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I have not enjoyed very much this summer.  I am pregnant with our fourth child and I have felt horrible all summer.  I was sick with the other three kids but nothing like this.  I spent most of my summer laying in bed hoping the nausea would go away.  We ate out more in July than I think my kids ever have in their lives.  They were beginning to think that McDonald’s is a regular dietary staple.  My house has not been taken care of as I would have liked.  The kids have watched more tv than ever before.  I am slacking in my scripture study and other spiritual areas.  I could go on and on, but I know we all have times like this in our lives.  There are times when we either don’t feel well physically or emotionally and just need to take a little time out.  I also know that things will get better and that Heavenly Father does not forget us.  I know that no matter how we feel, he sends us what we need when we need it.

I am grateful for a husband who didn’t mind coming home from work and picking up my slack and picking up the house!  I am grateful for a friend who sensed our needs and brought my family a wonderful home cooked meal on a day that I just couldn’t bear to eat fast food again.  I am grateful that I was able to quit work to stay home full time with my kids.  I am grateful we will soon have another child in our family.  I am grateful for this beautiful sunset we experienced one night at my parent’s home.

It’s easy to sit and wallow in our pain.  But, when we think of all we are grateful for, it makes things much easier to bear.

I am a Mother

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I am a pharmacist.  I went to college for five long and grueling years.  I always knew I didn’t want a career.  I always wanted to stay at home with my children.  My fellow students all thought I was crazy to put myself through the torture of pharmacy school when I didn’t want to work full time when I graduated.  Well, when I did graduate, I worked full time for a few years to help Phil finish school and get his career started.  Then I went to part time after I had my first child.  My mom watched Ella, then Preston, then Brennen as I worked 1-3 days a week.  I never had to continue working.  It was just something I did because I could.  I always felt I had the best of both worlds because I still felt like a stay at home mom.  I only worked part time and my kids weren’t going to a babysitter.  I also felt like I got out into the “real world” a few days a week and was able to contribute to the family income.

Well, earlier this year I started feeling a little stressed with the three kids, work, house, and the prospects of having another baby.  I knew in my heart that I needed to quit work completely.  I kept feeling this way and knew something had to be done.  When Phil and I found out we were expecting another baby, we knew it was time for me to say goodbye to work for a while.

I didn’t think it would be so hard for me to give up especially since I only worked part time and I was excited to spend more time with my kids at home.  But, it was tough.  I started working there when I was 16.  As you can see by the photo above that I have worked there exactly half of my life!   That is a long time.  The economy is really bad right now too and I felt nervous about quitting a good job when so many people are looking for work.  When I expressed this concern to Phil, he said, “Heavenly Father’s ways are not the ways of the world.”  That really made me think.  I know that logically with the economy the way it is, I should work and continue to contribute to the family income.  But, I know that Heavenly Father wants me to stay home with my kids and teach them His ways.  I know my family will be blessed because of this and that makes me happy.  So, for now I am a mother!

Here is a video that I love:

A New Calling

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I was called to be the Relief Society President for our branch at church.  I am scared to death to take on this much responsibility for the sisters that I will serve.  I was given a huge stack of paperwork to go through and this is what I narrowed it down to.  I still have a lot to read and a lot to learn!  I knew for some time that this calling was coming.  The Lord gives us what we need and I needed time to prepare!  I pray that with His help I will be able to serve in the way He would want me to.

Time Out!

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This weekend I attended Time Out For Women with my mom, sister Mallory, sister Miranda, and sister-in-law Bekah.  It was wonderful!  The guys stayed home with the kids (thank you!) and we spent the night away.  I had so much fun.  One of the highlights of the weekend was when we went to a small cafe to eat lunch before the program started.  When we walked in we saw three presenters, Kim Nelson, Kris Belcher, Emily Watts, and the musical presenter Hilary Weeks at the table next to us!  We were so excited and I finally asked for a photo.  They were so kind to us.  The rest of the weekend just got better from there.  We laughed, we cried, we talked.  I am thankful for this weekend away with the girls in my family and look forward to doing it again next year!

The theme for Time Out was “Sweet Assurance.”  The presenters spent the two days getting us to think about things that we know for sure.  They told us to write them down and try to add to our list.  I don’t know a lot but I do know a few things for sure.

I know that my Heavenly Father loves me and takes care of my needs.
I know that my parents, husband, and children love me too.
I know that the spirit of God is real.  I have felt it too many times in my life to deny it.

When you get a second, take some time out and write down some things you know for sure!